Response to My SMS Ban

Docs that are largely obsolete are unbolded.

Original Appeal

I was banned on 2022/09/18. These pages were published within the first 5 weeks, except the last one, which was 3.5 months in (after 1UpsForLife returned).

1. Foreword
About manipulative social dynamics and being believed. This doc is just about general bullying techniques conducted by Mlarvitar etc. and can be summarised as “bullying doesn’t stop until the victim is dead”.

2. Jeff and Me
Answering for how I treated Jeff.
EDIT 2024/08: This story is now available in interactive q&a storytelling form: download and extract this 7z archive, then open jeff-story.html.

3. The Mods and Me
Looking at my problematic behaviours and the chances I was given to address them.

3A. Why I Quit IL Mod Consultancy
An explanation of how Lego pushed me out of my mod consultant roles.

4. Mod Evidence Review
A look at screenshots of mod chat I received on 2022/10/16 and how they clarify (1) the “unilateral” toburr ban and (2) my receptivity to criticism.

5. Private Case
Answering for the private case. Obsoleted by doc #7 but nonetheless a good raw reflection of how it feels to be cancelled w/o evidence as having “abused” a secret victim.

6. Jpep/MLarvitar Social Abuse Case
About Jpep/MLarvitar’s malicious actions around this case and their bullying and social abuse.

7. 1UpsForLife and Me
Disclosing full details about the private case (published 6th Jan 2023).

Endless Cancer

8. Review 2023/07
A review of the case, 9 months after the ban. This is written from the mods’ pov and addresses vague things I was accused of and their politics, and was made for Dex-type observers. Given the mods intentionally kept me in the dark on the substance of their case until the bitter end, this doc is obsolete.

9. Review 2023/08 (“August Summary”)
This review summarises the abuse the mods did to me thru the ban, from my pov. That is, the slander, deliberate lying to cover it up, the impact on me, and many steps they took privately to enforce the unjust outcome.

10. The End 2024/02
A summary of the state of all aspects of the case 17 months in, with my emotions and commentary on how it’s gone.

11. 1UpsForLife Case 2024/03
A case I was requested to make about 1UpsForLife lying about our friendship history to manufacture consent for conspiring to ostracise me as an abuser.

12. Opinions on Conspirators 2024/03: Warspyking, Lego6245, Jpitar, New Mods.
These videos (check descriptions/comments) are my opinions on and reads of each person culpable for my ostracisation, following the Warspy “trial”. The new mods weren’t conspirators nor really culpable at the time so this was just a few comments about their recent behaviour towards me.

Events 2024/03–06

A brief update I posted on this page in 2024/06. The timeline after the Warspyking “trial” (2024/02):

  • 2024/03: chachachaser (a.k.a. invictus) started a secret conversation with the new mods to bully me behind my back with made-up accusations concocted from decontextualised bits of evidence from situations he hadn’t witnessed first-hand. It was too hard for me mentally to read back but one may read it here (see invicted1.html).
  • 2024/04: after that, I joined the conversation and it didn’t go anywhere much for ~3 weeks (see invictus2.html). The most important thing we established was that the whole abuser accusation stemmed from an interview the mods did with Jpep. It seems that he lied and the mods acknowledged they were fucked if he lied, yet the conversation conveniently disappeared so neither Jpep nor the mods will face consequences ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.
  • 2024/05: after several cases of the new mods traumatising me by threatening to pull in MLarvitar to comment on bingo drama and claiming I was guilty of some other undisclosed private abuse, they leveraged my reaction to constructively dismiss me from the convo (by making a secret shadow convo).
  • 2024/06: not heard from them in 1.5 months so we can conclude their conclusion is I’m permabanned, Lego6245 did nothing wrong, Warspyking did nothing wrong, Noki Doki did nothing wrong and no efforts will be taken to clear my name other than some unannounced edits to the original libel. My conclusion is there’s not much separating their support of social abuse from them being social abusers themselves.

13. Intimidation Décomplexé (Part 1) 2024/07
The story in screenshots of how 1UpsForLife + her agents communicated the false abuse case about her to Lego6245, and how he interpreted it via his reactions. Both sides engineered the case as a pre-emptive strike against me. Part 2 is not published here and describes the social consequences of this cancellation from a PoV 2 years later.